In a not so distant past I was invited by a Christian group to a workshop/seminar they have for single parents/ single moms.  The title or theme of the workdhop was “Feeling Desperate and Low”.  I got offended and hurt by their title that I immediately said I won’t go to their event.  In my defense I posted the incident on my personal Facebook wall and vent out how I am never gonna associate myself with a group who thinks so ill of single moms like me. How could they uplift us if at the start they think so low of us.  If that isRead More →


I saw a video posted by Daily Mail UK on Facebook earlier and it broke me down.   It was a video of a guy and his mother who is suffering from Dementia.  His story was so like mine, but mine was worst because his mum can speak understandable words.  My mom have a language of her own, garbled made up words, she can only understand herself. His mum like my mom looks physically OK but inside they are all messed up.  Everyday, for the past two years,  my sister and I die whenever our mother can’t even tell who we are , what ourRead More →

I’ve been single for so long that I don’t know how it’s like to be in a relationship anymore.  I don’t know, I think I have trust issues or I’m too clingy or I don’t want to commit anymore.  Maybe I haven’t found the one who can get me the way I am or he hasn’t find me yet. I only get to think too much about my relationship status when the Valentine’s month comes.  It’s the single awareness month (SAD) when commericalism rubs in your face that you don’t have anyone to watch a movie with, go out for dinner with or give youRead More →

Going on a blind date is an exciting experience but you can never predict anything about it. On the one hand, you’re proud of how brave you are to go out with a stranger. But on the other hand, you’re afraid your date might turn out to be a complete loser and you’d have to spend the whole evening in his company. Anyway, it’s definitely worth a try since your blind date can have a happy ending. Before going on a blind date, you should prepare for it, mainly psychologically. Since you met online and you haven’t seen each other in real life – onlyRead More →

Before I left for my US adventure,  I was able to have a one-on-one interview with Fengshui Master Marites Allen.  During our talk she was able to give me some forecast and Fengshui tips for the year of the Fire Rooster this 2017.   One of the most interesting forecast she said was saying that 2017 will be a year when everyone can be lucky in love!   It’s the year to find your love if you haven’t found it yet.  She also said that the coming year will be way much better than 2016 in general.  There will be less conflict and less worries.Read More →

Marriages can be a real challenge dealing with infidelity, betrayal, integrity, intimacy and strength. With celebrity headlines of constant strife, divorce, and infidelity, it’s really easy to see why more and more people are turning their marriages into a living mess. There are many couples who are concerned and are looking for ways to prevent their marriages from falling apart because of looming affairs. Tell Your Spouse You Love Them: Too often people get swept up in their busy lives, they overlook the most simplistic essentials to a good relationship. Telling your spouse you love them is pretty simplistic and leaves a lasting devotion. BothRead More →

The first date with a new girl has never been an easy challenge. You have so many things to worry about WHILST your anxiety should not be obvious in order to look natural and, at least, average. Don’t listen to dating advisers that say that worries and nervousness will magically vanish if you believe in yourself and take a deep breath. They are just playing with you to look impressive. However many dates you will attend, you will still feel moderately nervous every time.Read More →