In a recent report, the global online charity group Internet Watch Foundation (IWF) declared that 2021 was the worst year on record for child sexual abuse online as lockdowns saw younger children being targeted by internet groomers. Last year, the IWF took action against 252,000 websites globally which contained unsafe images and videos for children.
Protecting children online, particularly from the incidence of online sexual abuse takes more than just knowledge about technology – knowing about your kids is more important.
In a webinar following the MOA signing between leading fiber broadband provider Converge ICT Solutions Inc. and child rights protection agency, the Stairway Foundation Inc., and the Inter-Agency Council Against Child Pornography (IACACP), panelists agreed the quality of the relationship between parents and their children is the most important safeguard from online predators.
These panelists from Converge, Stairway, and the IACACP agree that parents’ relationship with their kids can be helped by:
Having Open Conversations
Parents should make their children feel as if they can talk to them about anything under the sun – especially when there are situations that endangers them. This openness will start the conversation on what should and shouldn’t be done online.
“If you want to protect children as parents, look at parenting in general. Don’t be concerned that the digital divide between generations is too big – it’ll always depend on having a good relationship with kids and having open conversations,” said Child Protection Specialist from Stairway Mr. Ysrael Diloy.
“Ensuring the safety of your children online starts with setting the right family values. We, as parents, can monitor their activities without smothering them. But this is pointless if we do not teach them what’s harmful to begin with,” shared Converge Chief Technology Officer Ronald Brusola.
Use your time online for bonding
Parents can struggle with how fast technology evolves – so why not reach out to kids to ask for their help in navigating the internet? In that way, it becomes a bonding experience with them, and at the same time, a learning experience on how your kids spend their time online, says Interagency Council Against Child Pornography officer Mr. Christian Bioc.
Cyberspace can be a platform to bring parents and children together, may it be in watching movies, playing online arcade, or doing online gimmicks such as viral dances or challenges.
“Gawing bonding opportunity ang pag-navigate sa online environment. Malalaman niyo kung papaano ang paggamit ng anak nila ng internet, at the same time, matututo kayo sa teknolohiya,” he noted.
Investing in the right online tools
For tech-savvy parents, being proactive by using online filtering tools can also be useful in preempting unsafe online interactions.
“Aside from having an open relationship with kids, parents can invest in blocking software for their home network. They may install filtering software,” added Mr. Benjamin Azada, Converge Chief Strategy Officer.
Mr. Jeff Briones, Converge Head of Global Network Operations Center shared that technology can be an ally in the protection of children. “Technology can empower parents as well in protecting children so it helps to be savvy. As an ISP, we have employed safety mechanisms to ensure that our network blocks these unsafe and illicit websites.”