Blog of an Independent Woman
Sometimes my head wanders through a dark place. Like right now I was thinking, why are we all so afraid to die. If we all get the virus and die right now, then that will be good for all of us. That will be the end of our journey and suffering, if any. So, why […]
For a work-from-home individual and a child with autism who only does ADL this curfew and lock-down a.k.a. community quarantine or social distancing is not new for us. But for the rest, the suspension of classes will make them uneasy and perhaps bored. In case you are from out of this world, the whole world […]
As I woke up this morning I decided to make some changes in the blog. I want it to be more intimate again and personal, less of commercial, ergo a revamp. It doesn’t mean no advertorials anymore, of course there will be. As mom like ms has to work and hustle double to pay the […]
People are making their look back essays for the past decades but Me I won’t.I don’t want to look back because I’m afraid to realize how I lost so many people, opportunities and things this 2019. They said your only good as your last. A lot do their New Years Resolutions but I won’t. […]
The last Year of the Metal Rat happened 60 years ago, and within that time period, the 5 elements (Wood, Fire, Earth, Metal, and Water) and the 12 animal signs (Rat, Ox, Tiger, Rabbit, Dragon, Snake, Horse, Goat, Monkey, Rooster, Dog, Pig) have completed the cycle according to the traditional Chinese solar calendar. This is […]
Eleven years ago, I lost my father. It was one of the saddest and helpless days of my life. I have not told this story on this blog. I hate pity parties, especially for me. But today , as I look at my Facebook I saw my status and I realized how sad I was […]
I used to be a mommy blogger blogging every single detail about my journey as a single mom of a child (toddler) with autism. The things I write about surviving autism has touched a lot of readers hearts and minds that I gained a lot of following because of it. I loved the fact that […]
When the big 4 O hit, I didn’t know what to expect. I wasn’t melancholic , I wasn’t anxious. It’s just numbers the numbers does not define me unless I look like it. But what’s the expectation of being forty anyway? Wrinkled and sad ? Who set this expectations anyway? I’ve been there and done […]
For many people, January is the month to start fresh, with people up and down the land solemnly resolving to become streamlined alcohol-free healthy eaters that donate more to charity and reply to texts the same day. These are all great ideas, but they’re kind of samey and a bit boring. They also hardly ever […]
My first post for 2019 is about how my 2018 went. January is my birth month. 2018 was a milestone as I stepped into the fourth decade of my life. Now that I am this “old” I’ve realized that age is nothing but numbers especially if you don’t look like it . People half my […]
Do you wish to rise? Begin by descending. You plan a tower that will pierce the clouds? Lay first the foundation of humility. I think this was the ideals of the woman I met more than two years ago which made her successful in all her endeavors now. I can say this is true for […]
Saying , thinking, agreeing, consenting to Phedopelia on the excuse that it is a sexual orientation that animals (sorry I cam’t call you people) can’t control their preferences is the biggest lie and excuse a pervert will make to get away with this sickening crime! Let this sink in the oerverts heads I will fight […]