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Is There Such A Thing As Innocent Flirting?

Flirt – a playful behavior intended to arouse sexual interest.Flirting – a form of human interaction generally used to express a sexual or romantic interest in the other person.

Flirting is often used as a means of expressing interest in a person of the opposite sex and gauges the other person’s interest in courtship. It could be said to be the predefining stage to dating for flirting generally paves the way for courtship between individuals. This courtship could continue into a long term relationships. Alternatively, it could also be a simple prelude to casual sex with no emotional strings attached and no continuous relationship.

By simple definition I found in Wikipedia there is nothing innocent in flirting. I know it’s natural for people to interact with other people especially with the opposite sex, or depending on your sexual preferences or someone who arouses our interest. The flirting level just differs among individuals.

How flirt are you?

People who flirt may speak and act in a way that suggests greater intimacy than is generally considered appropriate to the relationship (or to the amount of time the two people have known each other), without actually saying or doing anything that breaches any serious social norms. It comprises of different ways and types such as conversation, body language, or brief physical contact.You are definitely flirting (in chat or in person) if you manifest one or two of these:

Like talking with a sense of playfulness, naughtiness, tease or even irony.

Practicing eye contact with the other person or in case on the net inviting them to cam. When we are aroused and interested in what we are looking at our pupils dilate.
While chatting you purposely or inadvertently stroke your hair or lips or chin.

Casual touches; or showing off your muscles or curves. When someone does this, it marks good communication and shows us that our interest is reciprocated.

Smiling suggestively.

Sending flirty emotes like winking or winking in person).

Sending notes, poems, or small gifts.

Footsies, the “feet under the table”.

While some of the subconscious signs are universal across cultures, flirting etiquette varies significantly across cultures. Different cultures have different ways to convey and communicate and as a result what applies in one country might be contraband in another country. This could lead to misunderstandings.

Some justify “hot chats” as harmless fun, but this sort of behavior has caused marital rifts – and has even lead to in-person affairs offline. Since online flirting or online sex is simpler and fantasy-based, it can fuel desire even more, leading someone to seek a real-life affair. Thanks to fictional user names, these encounters can remain completely anonymous and completely online.

If not physical infidelity, a partner may have an emotional affair which is a type of infidelity that usually does not begin with physical intimacy or sex. In fact, by definition, this type of cheating begins with the emotions. Many people assume that cheating must involve physical intimacy, but this type of infidelity can also lead to broken relationships.

So, to make the long story short, there is no such thing as innocent flirting. If you are not single, widowed, divorced or separated, you are not allowed to flirt! Period.

Now tell me, am I too conservative in this belief?

If you want to spice up your love life and are a little adventurous then why don’t you just get some adult toys that you can  use with your loved one.  I’m sure there are cheap sex toys you can find out there.  This will be a lot better than physical infidelity that one partner could get some disease .

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23 Comments

  1. there is no such thing as innocent flirting – I agree!

    Nice post. 🙂

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  2. Sherry

    I made a post in my rambling bout about this flirting.

  3. Jes

    hi i made another review =) i like this blog too!

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